To gain one's respect, you have to earn it yourself.
One of the way is to be a nice person? NO!!!
I treat others nice and wad i get, insults? bad comments?
And seriously, juz by impression itself, u wont fking noe me!
Things i do:~
- I like to treat frens/family to meals and stuff doesnt mean
I'm a rich fk! Cuz i juz wan people to be happy and have fun!!
I dun ask anything back from treating people but the impression
people see is like im showing off? Very Nice....
- I love to give 'threatening' comments with friends, does that
mean i really mean it? Since when did my threatening comments
are fulfilled? Tell me?! If you look it in another way, these
are wad we call J-O-K-E-S!!
- I dun train in the dojo and i pin point others of their mistakes
ONLY?! Great! First thing first, I took the trouble to come down
to the dojo in NYP to HELP OUT JUNIORS, given tat sometimes alot
of the seniors ain't there. Due to my health problem, I slowed down
on judo and as sensei requested, come down to help when I'm free.
I not only pin point on mistakes, i also give the reason why
sometimes the mistakes are being repeated and how to try to eliminate
the mistakes... But yea, everyone sees it as slacking...
- I flirt? Hello? Juz because i sometimes enjoy the company of girls
does it make me a flirt? Is socialising with female makes you a flirt?
When almost most of my time in judo im trying to teach the few guys
which i see more potential in was juz an act?
- You think i always smile means im happy? I have my own problems and
yet im trying not to make people around me worry or mood spoilt!
- As someone with more experience in something, or walked on this earth
slightly longer than another, we have to lover our voices, take all the
humiliation and talk/smile nicely back?
Seriously, being nice doesnt give you the respect.. Its no different from
being a bastard isnt it?
